we are not energy particles just joined together ; we are humans , modern man has reduced itself to just material and if we are a cyberbog kind of human ; than yes your theory might hold wait

we are capable of sharing a meal or being sympathetic ; in-spite of the very thing needed for for our own survival ; we have a concept of fairness, justice, equality , compassion , freedom built into us ; until we do not realize or identify who we are we will keep struggling