my humble opinion, after reading quite a few articles like these and listening to Christians; that is not a problem with Jesus teaching, but unfortunately the original bible did not survived and later when it was written through tradition and understanding of people lot of extra and contradictory thing added up; So its not a problem with problem with Jesus, Bible or even of religion itself and we being people tried to use that power and influence that religion provide to gain power and misuse its authority.

wrote a piece please read if you get a chance and let me know If I misunderstood or misquoted any thing , https://medium.com/illumination/jesus-is-sad-and-ashamed-926b0dc2b1a3