good question, this article might have some answer https://theconversation.com/men-and-women-experience-happiness-differently-heres-why-104507

Its possible men instead of showing emotion and suffering using different means to shrug of that feeling while women not able to process that falling into depression/mental illness - especially with stress of being a mother and earner for a family

Being a theist ( and as per understanding of the revelation) I vouch for role playing and mutual respect and love between the two as the way forward, instead of us vs them to form a strong family unit ( and eventually a strong society) so future human generation are more stable and happier than us.